Showing posts with label music. Show all posts
Showing posts with label music. Show all posts

Women empower Music and Music empowers Women

Nothing turns oppression into opportunities for women like women strolling into the field they love to see themselves in. Long gone are the days when ‘rockstar’ was a word mostly associated with boys because today, girls mean business when they pick a tune and sing; it’s par ‘just a hobby’. 

Today, empowerment of female gender is more of an exploration of feminine aspects, their implications and transformation and the development of a healthy psychology. And it all comes complete with the acceptance of the representations of the same.

The swarming Facebook shares of the link to vote Astha Tamang Maskey on an international Ryan Seacrest’s cover competition few months back is still afresh on our digital functioning minds and we have settled quite amicably to the art of female artists, pop stars or singers, and all we sought to address her kind as. But the conclusion often underived is whether or not ‘this enrichment in music industry by female artists is empowering women’.

Interpreting the message of empowerment if there is any depends upon the audience as much as it does on the performers. The validation of its practice is yet another thoughtful matter. Millions of girls worldwide acknowledged their heartbreak and moved on with Adele, collected their appraisals with Taylor Swift and nurtured their dreams and homes with Queen B, BeyonceThere is no doubt that girls (and boys even) gathered up their worth listening to Katy Perry’s Roar and Fireworks and the message got real when she collaborated with a domestic violence survivor to perform at the Grammy's this year.

(Brooke Axtell's Grammy Speech below)


Also, we really don’t have to go that far to seek inspiration or pursue the consent and contentment of being not born a male. Every household name currently, Aastha Raut enjoys her critical and commercial success and let you be reminded of how her songs question the basis of identification of a Nepali. It was her dominant voice demanding an answer if it is really necessary to wear a Chaubandi and Patuki or be capable of collecting fodder to be certified as a part of Nepal. 

This hit song though not accurate, is a robust reflection of women’s limited rights to question which with time is escalating its spread. This had sparkled a decision-making power globally among the non-chaubandi and patuki wearing women as the acceptance of this song boldly answers ‘No’.
Aastha revealed that she had been a rebel since her childhood and chose songs that talked of the virtues of being a daughter and advocated rights for girls strongly. She time and again mentions her gratefulness to her guru Suresh Adhikari and further confirms, “I believe in respecting the difference people have, may it be culture, religion, nationality or gender. I have always wished to be the unheard voice of women and Jhumke Bulaki and Chaubandi ma Patuki represents me as a spokesperson for the youth who along with me, truly connected to those songs.

One name we certainly cannot miss out, Abhaya Subba exemplifies the grand forte assembled by a woman and she not only summons women in concert but women in command. And the other important thing that we need to, not have to, but need to understand is that every song the female artists sing might not and will not contain the words of female empowerment, but they themselves on this platform standing tall and respectful is anything but the embodiment of a power that promotes every female division and subordination.

Even with the prevalent socioeconomic circumstance with marginal exploration access of available opportunities and abilities within, girls and women are emerging out on every major arena in addition to the example of industry of music discussed above. And hopefully this shall continue up to an extent where the word ‘woman empowerment’ will be extinct and if that would not be an ideal and equal world, then what would be?



Photo Source: (AASTHA RAUT) Artist's Facebook Profile.
(Published: ESSENCE Magazine, Year 04, Vol. 03, March 2015, Music)

TakeTEN : Marriage Theme Songs

“Song of the rings” *My Precious!

Especially those with a knack of rushing, hurrying and planning their unseen, uncertain future; I ask you to settle down and listen to the songs that you often hear to. Who knows, you might just hit the realization that some songs - CORRECTION - all songs actually make sense.

That’s the beauty of music and the power of words. We have heard them say, there is a song for every emotion turbulent inside you and every situation you get yourself cornered in. (I totally made that up right now, but you did relate to it, didn't you?) All you need to do is listen often, with open ears, more open heart and the most open mind. 
And hey, no judgments on the songs mentioned, okay? (Wink)

Chances are that you are either at a point, will get to a point or successfully past a point where you assume All your friends are growing old, doing what they’re told while you are caught up in the magic, music and fun. Seriously now, stop over listening to Skyhooks’ ‘All my friends are getting married' because you know, I know, we all know that the fun and magic doubles when you find the one whose ring finger will scream at you to Put a ring on it (Single Ladies, Beyonce).

Let me quote Frank Sinatra for instance, Love and Marriage go together like a horse and carriage. You can’t have one without the other (Love and Marriage, Sinatra) ‘And No, No one is too young to get married. What kind of difference can a few years make?’ sang Bob B. Soxx and The Blue Jeans.

So there, I broke the ice, the songs being referred to, all say marriage or wedding. 

Are you still interested in this post? Or are you just being polite? Are you bored perhaps? 

Don't be. As a refreshment, allow me to take you back to a scene from Frozen (I didn't watch Frozen, my sister did). Let it go...Let it go... No I am not singing it. Okay, so in that movie when Elsa says to Anna, “You can’t marry a man you just met.” I remembered Darlene Love’s 1963 hit, Today I met the boy I'm gonna marry. RIP!

I have always believed that great lyrics and great songs share few common themes: the isolation before or after love, the buoyancy of being in love, the certainty of spending life with the chosen one and most of the times, the heartbreak, the betrayal and the tragedy. But like I mentioned earlier, the theme we are sticking to here is marriage/wedding, yes out of all. 


Fasten your belts of single hood (if married, loosen the belt a little) and learn by heart some of the most romantic lines from the Ten handpicked ‘marriage’ songs for the one with whom you want to make a sandwich together as your midnight snack.


1.     Tell me who I’ll marry, Judy Collins, 1962

Tell me who I'll marry, Tell me who he'll be

While the vistuly is flowing, By the green oak tree



2.     Marry me a little, Barry Manilow, 1975

Marry me a little. Body, heart, and soul.
Passionate as hell. But always in control


3.     Will you Marry me, Paula Abdul, 1992
Just girl to boy, I’d like to share this thought with you
Our love is a joy, two ones have made inseparable two.
So now I’ve finally got the courage
Just ask you baby, Will you marry me, boy?

4.     When I said I do, Clint Black, 1999
When I said I do, I meant that’s I will till the end of time
Be faithful and true, devoted to you.

5.     Let’s Get Married, Jagged Edge, 2000
Meet me in the altar in your white dress
We ain’t getting no younger, we might as well do it
Been feeling all the while girl, I must confess
Girl, Let’s just get married.

6.     Marry Me, St. Vincent, 2007
I want to marry you, So marry me, John
Marry me, John I’ll be so good to you.

7.     Marry Me, Train, 2010
Forever can never be long enough for me, to feel like I've had long enough with you.
Marry me. Today and every day. Say you will. Say you will.

8.     Marry You, Bruno Mars, 2011
Is it the look in your eyes, or is it this dancing juice?
Who cares baby, I think I wanna marry you.

9.     Marry Me, Jason Derulo, 2013
A hundred and five is the number that comes to my head
When I think of all the years I wanna be with you
I swear that I will mean it. I’ll say, “Will you marry me?”
And of course, our favorite Nepali proposal song.
10.                       Will you Marry me, Anil Singh
It’s a sight of mind that’s all, First and last I’d like to propose.
Oh girl, my love, Will you marry me? (You are probably singing this in your head.)
Bonus tip: If your girlfriend’s dad is a bit uptight and you want to marry that girl, marry her anyway, sing Rude by Magic, 2014, to him.  Marriage is a family affair after all.



(Published: ESSENCE Magazine, Year 4, Vol. 02, February 2015, RHYTHM N BEATS.)